There are many reasons why I dance salsa. One is to fail. Yes, you read that correctly. I dance to fail. When you partner dance, salsa in particular, you are going to make mistakes, several times a dance, no matter how good you are. Dancing salsa gives me a powerful opportunity to stay in process, let go of the results, and just be present. Sound familiar? The mindset and skills of making that happen are an essential part of my coaching academics on writing, being “productive” and being in the job.
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Sunday, November 3, 2024
Thursday, March 28, 2024
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Monday, February 12, 2024
Good morning, have a good writing session
Happy Monday. I hope today you have a good writing session. What is a good writing session? One in which you stay in process, do not trash yourself with expectations and demands, don't try to "catch up", have a good entry, focus on one sentence at a time, and write for a healthy, sustainable amount of time.
There is a lot more to it than that, or perhaps, there is not .
Thursday, December 7, 2023
Expanding My Coaching Practice
As I prepare to retire after 25 year as a college professor, I am expanding my coaching practice. For 14 years, I have helped academic thrive in ways they never thought possible. Let's have a complementary chat, even if you are only one percent interested. I love helping!
Saturday, November 18, 2023
To Be Yourself
When you reach the limits of what is expected of you, you come to same dilemma: to be yourself.
Paraphrased from a distant memory, Henry Miller's Tropic of Capricorn.
Monday, October 23, 2023
Ten Reasons Why I Am Retiring From Faculty to Coach Full Time
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When you reach the limits of what is demanded of you, you reach the same dilemma, to be yourself, Henry Miller.
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My sister is dying of brain cancer.
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I am dying too, as are you, we just don’t know the date.
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My dog is cute AF, and if this does not work out, someone will take us in.
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I can coach my butt off. I may suck at other things, but at coaching, I am awesome-sauce..
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Everything I have ever done has led me to this.
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Because I can help you write. A lot. Without killing yourself. Fact.
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Go big or go home. We are all going home.
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Because I get to spend each and every day being part of the journeys of amazing people.
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Come find out 🦄🦄🦄
Saturday, September 23, 2023
Workbooks to Help You With Self Talk and Other CBT Tools
However, if you have no access and if your condition is not serious enough to seek therapy or medication, or if you are hoping to grow and change in key areas, workbooks can be part of your self help toolbox.
Last spring, I actually had an assignment in my graduate cognitive therapy course in which students selected and worked through a CBT oriented workbook. In my course evaluations, seven or eight students highlighted that work as one of the most important things they did in their whole graduate social work program. Wow. I have also used these as supplements to my work with clients, suggesting they work though one of these in order to assist our work together.
Using these workbooks are a great way to work on your self talk--the topic of the last several of my blog posts. Some of these workbooks are related to specific conditions, while others are more general tools to help you with your mental health and resiliency. Try one, and let me know how they work.
In no particular order: